In a message dated 4/16/99 7:19:02 AM Pacific Daylight Time, InTheLime@aol.com writes: << Sit down with a few friends and try to come up with a where you want to go for drinks. Sit down with my family (Oh my GOD!) and try to come up with anything but oppositional debate. >> True, true! How do the Quakers do it then, I wonder. I think they sit in the same room til they all agree... signed, mona - a mostly quiet rat